This has been a year of retrospection for me. I’ve been looking back at my 50+ year career in radio and journalism that started at my hometown radio station and newspaper. Heck, even before that at my junior high newspaper.
I’ve posited about what’s happening in our world and how we’ll survive this authoritarian president who could easily target us for our DEI ‘wokeness’ and rabble-rousing on KGAY.
Two podcasts have allowed me to tell my “coming out” story — albeit in much different ways. Today, “Big Conversations, Little Bar” dropped, and I went back to listen to what I had shared with hosts Patrick Evans and Randy Florence. It’s an audio history of my career from age 15 to today. (The other was Believing Bolder which dropped last month.)
As I look back, I can’t help thinking about how difficult it was to come out of the closet as a young person. Saturday was National Coming Out Day, and it seemed to pass with little fanfare. That’s because coming out is so different today. Not necessarily easier, depending on your family situation, but with more role models and resources.
As a kid, there were none for me — except Liberace and Paul Lynde…
An article from USA TODAY talks about how YouTube has made a big impact on youth finding community and seeking role models as they grapple with coming out. This is especially true for our trans youth. While many young people have migrated to TikTok and podcasts, there’s no doubt that YouTube provided sanctuary.
I hope my story will give a future generation of content creators and entrepreneurs the catalyst to carry the torch, and continue what I’ve been a part of in LGBTQ+ media over the years. And I hope for the day when coming out is just a simple declaration with no reverberation.
Brad Fuhr, your K-Gay Desert Guide
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MON: Tramway Reopens
The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway reopens Monday, October 13 following its annual maintenance closure, with trams running every 30 minutes from 10 am–8 pm and the last tram down at 9:30 pm. Recent upgrades include carriage rebuilding, rope replacement, and system testing—ensuring a smoother, safer ride to the top. Also: This weekend is the Tram Road Challenge, a 3.7-mile (6K Run/Walk) climb with 1800 feet of elevation gain, this Saturday morning, October 17! More info
TUE: Wicked Trans and Nonbinary Tuesday
Wicked Trans and Non Binary Tuesday creeps into Trixie Motel on Tuesday, October 14 from 6–8 pm for a spellbinding night of music, dancing, and spooky good vibes. Come dressed to slay and celebrate in a frightfully festive space where everyone is welcome and the energy is hauntingly joyful. More info
WED: The Center Queer Women’s Social
The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert invites LGBTQ+ women to gather for an evening of connection and community at the Queer Women’s Social on Wednesday, October 15 from 5:30–7 pm. Held every third Wednesday of the month, this welcoming event offers a relaxed space to meet new friends, share stories, and enjoy meaningful conversation. More info
THU: 2025 Pride Honors Awards
The 2025 Coachella Valley Pride Honors Awards returns to Hilton Palm Springs on Thursday, October 16 from 5:30–7:30 pm for an evening of celebration, recognition, and community spirit. This inspiring ceremony honors trailblazers who uplift the LGBTQ+ community through advocacy, leadership, and creativity. This year’s honorees include Loren Ostrow, Honey Davenport, Courageous Resistance Indivisible of the Desert, Ben and Bob Kincaid, Valerie Milano, and Rev. Jane Voigts. Join fellow activists, allies, and supporters in honoring these champions of pride and progress. Get tickets
STARTS THU: Modernism Week – October
Modernism Week returns to Palm Springs with its signature fall celebration Thursday–Sunday, October 16–19. This immersive festival showcases midcentury modern architecture, art, interior and landscape design, and vintage style through more than 50 curated experiences (Here are a few highlights). From exclusive home tours to lively social gatherings, each event highlights the city’s rich design heritage and the enduring appeal of modernist aesthetics. A portion of proceeds supports local preservation and community initiatives. All activities are open to the public. More info
THU: Sammy Davis, Jr.: I’ve Gotta Be Me
Join the Tolerance Education Center on Thursday, October 16 from 6–7:30 pm for a powerful screening of Sammy Davis, Jr.: I’ve Gotta Be Me, a documentary by acclaimed filmmaker Sam Pollard. This compelling portrait traces Davis’ legendary career and complex identity through the lens of civil rights, race, and resilience. Featuring rare footage and interviews with Hollywood icons, the film offers an intimate look at one of America’s most dynamic entertainers. RSVP
FRI: Center Stage Gala
The Center Stage Gala returns to the Palm Springs Air Museum on Friday, October 17 from 5:30–9 pm with the inspiring theme Creating Impact Together. This powerful evening celebrates the collective strength of the LGBTQ+ community across the Coachella Valley—from Palm Springs to Coachella and beyond. Honoring Jeff Weyant and Marty Massiello with The Center’s Legacy Award, and hosted by Honorary Co-Chairs Chief Andy Mills and Cathy Mills, the gala highlights the transformative work of The Center and its growing reach. Guests will enjoy dinner, community connection, and a special musical performance by Marisa Corvo. More info
STARTS FRI: The Inheritance – Part 2
The Bent Theatre Company presents The Inheritance – Part 2 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center/Camelot Theatre, running Friday, October 17–Sunday, November 2. Inspired by E.M. Forster’s Howards End, this sweeping drama explores three generations of gay men as they navigate survival, identity, and the meaning of home. Whether or not you saw Part One, audiences will be seamlessly caught up before diving into this emotional journey of connection, reckoning, and renewal. Adult content; nudity included. Get tickets
FRI: Country and Pop Dance Party
The Rainbow Alliance at the Spiritual Center of the Desert presents Boots on the Ground: Country & Pop Dance Party on Friday, October 17 from 6–10 pm. Guests are invited to enjoy dinner, dancing, libations, raffle prizes, and live music from the high-energy band Pulp Vixen. Dust off your boots and join a night of joy, laughter, and community spirit. Get tickets
FRI–SUN: Modernism Fall Show
The 11th annual Palm Springs Modernism Show–Fall returns to the Palm Springs Convention Center on Saturday–Sunday, October 18–19, showcasing a curated mix of vintage 20th century treasures and original 21st century designs, with all items available for purchase. Saturday’s show runs from 10 am–6 pm, then 10 am–4 pm on Sunday. Guests can also attend the festive Preview Party on Friday, October 17 from 6–8 pm, benefiting Modernism Week and offering early access to shop the show in style. More info
FRI–SUN: Little Women: The Broadway Musical
Musical Theatre University proudly kicks off its twelfth season with the Tony-nominated hit, Little Women: The Broadway Musical. Based on the beloved novel by Louisa May Alcott, with music by Jason Howland, lyrics by Mindi Dickstein, and book by Allan Knee, this heartwarming production is described as Broadway’s “happiest and heartfelt musical hit.” Audiences can catch the talented students, accompanied by a full sixteen-piece Broadway orchestra, on Friday, October 17 at 7:30 pm, Saturday, October 18 at 7:30 pm, and Sunday, October 19 at 2 pm. The performances take place at the Helene Galen Performing Arts Center. Get tickets
The Cottage
Broadway’s killer comedy The Cottage runs through Sunday, November 2. Set in the 1920s, this stylish and scandalous romp follows one woman’s daring decision to expose her affair—unleashing a whirlwind of secrets, betrayal, and absurd hilarity. With razor-sharp dialogue and unexpected twists, the production offers a wickedly funny take on love, marriage, and the messiness in between. Get tickets
Take the LGBTQ+ Quality of Life Survey
The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert invites Coachella Valley residents to take part in its new LGBTQ+ Quality of Life Survey, designed to gather insights that will shape future programs, services, and advocacy efforts. By sharing lived experiences, participants help strengthen community support and ensure that local voices are heard and valued.
Best of Desert Nominations
The Desert Sun’s Best of Desert Community’s Choice Awards Nomination Round runs now through Wednesday, October 22. This is your chance to show love for local favorites in the “Entertainment & Leisure” category—consider nominating DJ Galaxy, DJ Eric Ornelas, and Modgirl for DJ Event/Wedding; John Taylor, Patrick Evans, and Chris Shebel for Radio Personality/Show; and KGAY 106.5/92.1 and 103.1 MeTV FM for Radio Station – Local. Submit nominations daily and if you nominate in 25 or more categories, you’ll be entered to win a $250 gift card. Let’s celebrate the voices, beats, and stations that keep the desert dancing! Nominate here
Get our Pride 2025 Visitor Map & Guide – FREE!
Check out our Pride 2025 Edition of the K-Gay Desert Guide Visitor Map & Guide —just released! To help you find everything you need as a visitor or local, we feature the top places for Food & Drink, Nightlife, Shopping, Attractions, Gay Resorts with passes, Dispensaries, and other services. Look for the latest edition at businesses and newsstands around town, or browse it online right here!
Vote KGAY and Local Favorites for Best of Coachella Valley!
CV Independent’s Best of Coachella Valley 2025–2026 has opened their Final Round Ballot—Thank you for the incredible support and strong showing in this year’s nominations—now’s the time to vote and help spotlight your favorites to win! Our contenders include: KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 and 103.1 MeTV FM in Life in the Valley > Best Radio Station, John Taylor, Patrick Evans, and Chris Shebel in Life in the Valley > Best Local Radio Personality, and our dynamic DJ trio—DJ Galaxy, DJ Eric Ornelas, and Modgirl—in Arts > Best Local DJ. Nominations will be accepted through Sunday, October 29. Cast your vote today!
ALSO THIS WEEK
Monday, October 13
Monday Night Bingo with Bella da Ball | 7–9 pm at the Ace Hotel
Hot Spot Trivia with Deven & Ned | 7–8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
Wednesday, October 15
Hot Spot Bingo with Deven & Ned | 7–8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Cathedral City
Thursday, October 16
Carousel Live Retro Music | 7–8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
VillageFest Street Fair | 6–10 pm in Downtown Palm Springs
Complexions Contemporary Ballet | 7 pm at the McCallum Theatre
Thursday–Sunday, October 16–19
Western Xposure: XXL | CCBC Resort
Friday, October 17
Drag Bingo/Trivia Nights (alternating) | 4:30–7 pm at Arrive Hotel
La Quinta Fall Festival | 5–9 pm at La Quinta Park
Food Truck Fridays | 5–10 pm in Downtown Indio
Meghan Murphy: Adventures from A Broad | 6–9:30 pm at The Purple Room Supper Club
Halloween Movie in the Park: Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice | 7 pm at Sunrise Park
Billy Bob Thornton and the Boxmasters | 8 pm at The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa Rancho Mirage
Celtic Thunder: An Intimate Evening | 8 pm at the McCallum Theatre
Saturday, October 18
Tram Road Challenge 6K Run/Walk | 5:15–10 am near the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway
Tantric Sex: The Sacred Journey Beyond the Ordinary | Sat & Sun 10 am– 6 pm in Cathedral City
Solar Sessions at Royal Sun Palm Springs | 12–6 pm
Opening Reception: “Luminescent Landscapes” by Stephan Smith | 4–7 pm at Brian Marki Fine Art
Modernism Art District Tour | 11 am–6 pm
Coachella Valley Firebirds vs. Colorado Eagles | 6 pm at Acrisure Arena
Meghan Murphy: Adventures from A Broad | 6–9:30 pm at The Purple Room Supper Club
Tyler Henry: An Evening of Hope and Healing | 8 pm at The Show
Comedian Henry Cho | 8 pm at The McCallum Theatre
Sunday, October 19
Dishin’ with Divine feat. Eureka! | 4 pm at Revolution Stage Co.
The Judy Show! | 5–8:30 pm at The Purple Room Supper Club
THIS WEEKEND
Miss Coco Peru: Fucq This Sh!t
Miss Coco Peru brings her razor-sharp wit and heartfelt storytelling to the Palm Springs Cultural Center on Saturday, October 18 at 7 pm with her latest solo show, Fucq This Sh!t. Blending comedy, song, and soul-searching sass, Coco invites audiences on a cathartic journey through grief, resilience, and reclaiming joy. With 35 years of cabaret brilliance behind her, this one-night-only performance promises laughs, tears, and a whole lot of truth. Get tickets
Say Yes to Prop 50
Join Democrats of the Desert and allies for a peaceful sign-waving rally in support of Prop 50 on Saturday, October 18 from 9–10:30 am. Meet at the corner of South Sunrise Way and East Palm Canyon Drive near the Saguaro Palm Springs to show your support, raise awareness, and energize the community. Bring your signs, your spirit, and your voice—let’s say yes to progress together. More info
House Party PS: Pride in Paradise
The Richmond/Ermet Aid Foundation (REAF) presents House Party PS: Pride in Paradise, bringing a tropical twist to Pre-Pride festivities on Saturday, October 18 from 6–9 pm. Hosted at a stunning Andreas Hills residence, the evening features entertainment by Jai Rodriguez, Lisa Viggiano, Billy L’Amour, and Dexter Boy. Guests will enjoy tropical appetizers, premium wines, fabulous cocktails, gogo dancers, and lively auctions—all benefiting The Center’s Community Food Bank and The L-Fund. Tropical or Pride attire is encouraged. Get tickets
Casual Concours 2025
Great Autos of Southern California presents Casual Concours 2025 on Saturday, October 18 from 9 am–2 pm at Mission Hills Country Club in Rancho Mirage. This glamorous charity car show celebrates the spirit of California car culture with a stunning array of classic, exotic, and specialty vehicles. More info
No Kings Protest
On Saturday, October 18 from 4–6 pm, Courageous Resistance and Indivisible of the Desert present the No Kings Protest at Sunrise Park. This peaceful gathering invites the community to stand united against authoritarianism and affirm democratic values. All are welcome to raise their voices in solidarity. Events are happening nationwide, find one near you. Additional local No Kings gatherings will take place in South Palm Springs at 9 am, Cathedral City at 9 am, Idyllwild at 12 pm, Joshua Tree at 11 am, and Big Bear at 3 pm. More info
SUNKSSD Pool Party feat. Modgirl and Friends
The SUNKSSD Pool Party with Modgirl & Friends will take place Saturday, October 18 from 12–6 pm at ARRIVE Hotel. Guests can enjoy happy house music by Modgirl and Sean Patrick, refreshing drinks, bites from the grill, and a lively atmosphere hosted by Gorilla Gay Bar. Cabanas and day passes are available. Get tickets
Hoktoberfest Fundraiser
Hoktoberfest hits Tool Shed on Saturday, October 18 from 8–10 pm, and CV Pride Hockey is bringing the heat with their infamous Jock Lottery fundraiser. Expect fall vibes, flirty fun, and a whole lot of skin as players strut their stuff to raise money for the league. With raffles, wingmen, and jockstrap presentations that are anything but shy, this wild night blends hockey spirit with cheeky community love. Come thirsty, come curious, and come ready to cheer. More info
Artist La Chica at Modernism Art District Tour
As part of the Modernism Art District Tour, artist La Chica (Kathleen Strukoff) welcomes visitors to Studio 26 on Saturday, October 18 from 11 am–6 pm. This free, self-guided experience invites guests to explore five creative districts across the Coachella Valley, meet local artists, view and purchase original works, and enjoy candid conversations rarely offered to the public. Most studios will host receptions from 4–6 pm, offering a lively close to a day of artistic discovery. More info
Palm Springs Vintage Market
The Palm Springs Vintage Market returns Sunday, October 19 from 7 am–2 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs for a special Modernism Week edition. This open-air market is a monthly favorite from October through May, offering a curated mix of retro treasures, antiques, and reclaimed finds. With friendly vendors, a welcoming community vibe, and a focus on authentic Mid Century style, it’s the perfect place to browse, connect, and “capture vintage with a view.” More info
Borrego Days Festival & Parade
The 59th Annual Borrego Days Desert Festival & Parade returns to Christmas Circle Community Park on Saturday and Sunday, October 18–19. This free, family-friendly celebration kicks off with a hometown parade and flyover, followed by two full days of live music, art exhibits, food vendors, a kids’ zone, and a classic car show. Saturday features performances by Al Williams Quintet, Stone Horse, Pulp Vixen, and Honky Tonk Nights, while Sunday showcases Mariachi Estrella and Disturbing The Piece. More info
2025 Coachella Legacy Cup
The inaugural Coachella Legacy Cup lights up the Mary Pickford Estate on Saturday, October 18 from 3–10 pm for the ultimate cannabis celebration. This landmark event brings together top brands, industry leaders, and passionate consumers for a day of competition, community, and elevated entertainment. Hosted by comedian Ngaio Bealum and featuring live music from the IRIE ROCKERZ, guests will enjoy food trucks and a consumption-friendly atmosphere. More info
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- The Pride Honors Awards
Thu. Oct 16 from 5:30–7:30 pm at the Hilton Palm Springs - Modernism Week – October
Oct 16–19 – Tickets on Sale Aug 1 - Center Stage Gala 2025
Fri. Oct 17 from 5:30–9 pm at the Palm Springs Air Museum - 11th annual Modernism Show – Fall
Sat.–Sun. Oct 18–19 at the Palm Springs Convention Center - The Inheritance – Part 2, presented by THE BENT
Oct 17–Nov 2 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - The Cottage: Broadway’s Killer Comedy
Oct 10–Nov 2 at Desert Theatreworks - Artist La Chica at Modernism Art District Tour
Sat. Oct 18 from 11 am–6 pm - House Party PS: Pride in Paradise
Sat. Oct 18 at 6 pm at a private estate - Miss Coco Peru – Fucq This Sh!t
Sat. Oct 18 at 7 pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - 2025 IGLTA Global Convention (LGBTQ+ Travel Association)
Tue.–Sat. Oct 21–25 - Wet & Wild Party Benefiting Police & Fire
Thu. Oct 23 from 5–7 pm at Desert Hand Car Wash - IGLTA Voyage: The Velvet Palm
Thu. Oct 23 from 6:30–9 pm at the Dinah Shore Estate - Flag Raising Block Party
Fri. Oct 24 from 5–10 pm in the Arenas District - The Addams Family – A New Musical Comedy
Fri.–Sun. Oct 24–26 at the Rancho Mirage Amphitheater - Palm Springs Pride Equality Walk
Sat. Oct 25 at 8 am - Edie: Las Vegas Showgirl Unleashed
Sat. Oct 25 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - Palm Springs Leather Pride 2025 – Gods of Leather
Oct 30–Nov 2 at Hotel Zoso, Tool Shed, CCBC, Hunters - UNBRIDLED SPIRIT: Celebrating 35 Years of Leather in Palm Springs
Thu.–Sun. Oct 30–Nov 2 at Hotel Zoso - Halloween on Arenas – 2 Days!
Fri. & Sat., Oct 31 & Nov 1 - 4th Annual Pride on the Page Book Festival
Sat. Nov 1 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - Sasha Velour: The Big Reveal Live Show
Wed. Nov 5 at 7 pm at the McCallum Theatre - Sordid Lives 25th Anniversary Benefit Screening Costume Contest & Q&A
Thu. Nov 6 at 7:30 pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - Palm Springs Pride 2025: “Be Heard”
Thu.–Sun. Nov 6–9 - The Official Palm Springs Pride Pool Party
Sat. Nov 8 from 11 am–5 pm at Palm Springs Surf Club - HRC Palm Springs Garden Party
Sat. Nov 8 from 2–4:30 pm at a private estate - Palm Springs Pride Parade
Sun. Nov 9 at 10 am in downtown Palm Springs - Protect the Dolls Brunch
Sun. Nov 9 from 12–2 pm at The 4707 - Mizell Center Presents Cheyenne Jackson Live in Concert
Wed. Nov 12 at 7 pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - Kenny G. at the Spotlight Showroom
Sat. Nov 15 at 8 pm at Spotlight 29 Casino - David Bowie Tribute : David Brighton’s Space Oddity Concert
Sat. Dec 6 at 7:30 pm at The Riviera Resort & Spa - Palm Springs International Film Festival
Jan 2–13, 2026 – Passes on Sale Now - Palm Springs International Film Awards
Sat. Jan 3, 2026 – Tickets on Sale Now
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KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 FM
The KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 Retro Lunch airs Monday through Friday from noon–1 pm, with DJ Galaxy (Vincent Corrales) and DJ Eric Ornelas playing an hour of their high-energy throwback mixes. On Sundays, we put all five hours together for the Retro Sunday Brunch from 11 am–4 pm. Perfect party music! The KGAY 106.5 Sunday Tea Dance with Modgirl airs every Sunday from 4–6 pm (right after the Retro Brunch). All our DJs took honors in the Best of Coachella Valley this year! Listen to KGAY 106.5 online
This week: Modgirl brings her signature style and energy to Palm Springs with five standout appearances across the week. Wednesday, October 15 at 6:30 pm, she joins the Oasis Magazine Launch Party at The Velvet Rope. Thursday, October 16 at 4 pm, she steps into the spotlight at Trina Turk’s boutique for an afternoon of fashion and flair. Friday, October 17 from 5–7 pm, she hits Center Stage at the Palm Springs Air Museum. Saturday, October 18 at 12 pm, she dives into the SUNKSSD Pool Party at ARRIVE Palm Springs. Finally, Sunday, October 19 at 10 am, she wraps the week with A.M. Stream at Café La Jefa.
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103.1 MeTV FM
Monday on 103.1 MeTV FM: We will be celebrating Paul Simon’s 84th Birthday on Monday with his Timeless and Memorable music all day long, brought to you by Game Day Men’s Health. 103.1 MeTV FM plays a Timeless and Memorable variety of the ’60s, ’70s, and ’80s with a touch of the ’50s! Listen in your car, at work, at home or around the world, online at 1031metvfm.com or tell Alexa, “Open 103.1 MeTV FM.”
- The Center Launches LGBTQ+ Quality of Life Survey for Coachella Valley Residents
- LGBTQ History Month in October: Why 2025 Makes Learning Queer History Essential
- Palm Springs Arenas District Bars Unite to Fund Pride with ‘Skip the Line’ Pass
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Find out what’s happening on any given day by browsing our Gay Desert Guide Online Event Listing Calendar, and for the big picture, take a look at major upcoming events in our 2025 Coachella Valley Calendar of Events.
Listen to KGAY 106.5 and 92.1 over the air, stream it [here], or listen on iHeart Radio with Alexa or Siri by saying “Play K-GAY 106 5 .” John Taylor is on mornings 6–10 am and program director Chris Shebel is on afternoons. Our Retro Lunch with DJ Galaxy and DJ Eric Ornelas is heard on Sundays as the Retro Lunch & Sunday Brunch from 11 am–4 pm, followed by Modgirl spinning the KGAY Sunday Tea Dance from 4–6 pm.