Gay Desert Guide Weekend: Apr 3-5, 2026

Billy Porter overshared. His performance at The Plaza Theater this week marked the first time he had been back on stage since an infection nearly killed the 56 year old actor. And boy did we hear about it.

Friends’ review of the show vary wildly. It wasn’t my cup of tea, but some with Broadway in their blood were gushing about the show. It was clear Porter was struggling vocally during a few numbers and had to sit down a spell during others. The encore was certainly inspiring and drew the crowd to their feet.

But we also had to sit through a Grey’s Anatomy lecture chronicling the start-to-nearly-finish of his illness. The story seemed to last an interminable amount of time.

And it got me to thinking about those who overshare — especially on social media. I’ve read more than my fair share of wince-worthy posts from friends, relatives and even those in my orbit with whom I have little contact. Somehow the algorithm feeds me a steady stream of hospital bedridden selfies with thousand word diatribes on their medical journey.

It’s not that I don’t want to know if someone I care about is having struggles and may need some comfort, support or help with their recovery. Of course I want to have a cliffnotes version. But please spare me the gorey details.

Maybe it’s my fear of needles and general wincing at bloody scenes in horror movies. I don’t faint at the sight of blood, but I’m just a squeamish kinda guy. So reading the deets on a catheter gone wild or a body part damaged and made whole just isn’t what I want to scroll through.

The condensed version of Porter’s journey was told on The Today Show. I could have understood if he had shared that shorter version, though in reading the transcript it was still too graphic and detailed for my liking.

Oversharers don’t always realize they are doing so. According to a research study at Penn State, “People don’t always remember what they share on social media, which could be a really big problem,” says lead author Jooyoung Lee, a doctoral student of information sciences and technology, as Fast Company reports.

Here’s a suggestion. There’s a little setting called “Post Audience” that allows you to share to the world, with a group of friends or to “Only Me”. The latter might be the best choice so you have the satisfaction of telling your story, without sharing the drama with the world. You can always go back and share a sanitized version later. Or not.

Brad Fuhr, your K-Gay Desert Guide

For the latest, follow our socials @GayDesertGuide and @KGAYPalmSprings and listen to KGAY Palm Springs wherever you reside!
#ILoveGayPalmSprings #ILoveGayCatCity #ILoveGayTravel #ILoveGay #SayKGAY #FindYourOasis #SupportYourStation #VisitGPS #LGBTQTravel

---

Desert Legends – Legendary Women’s Weekend

Desert Legends returns from Thursday–Sunday, April 2–5 for a Legendary Women’s Weekend filled with celebration, connection, and community. Guests can enjoy a lively mix of meet‑and‑greets, music, comedy, golf and pickleball tournaments, pool parties, watch parties, and a Saturday night concert featuring Corday with special guests, along with the Desert Legends Award presentation honoring Sweet Baby J’ai. With events ranging from breakfast bingo to late‑night dancing, the weekend offers an exciting lineup designed to bring women together through play, performance, and shared experiences. See our event listing for the packed, weekend-long schedule: More info

---

Easter Events

• Palm Springs Aerial Tramway – Easter Ride N Breakfast serves a sky-high feast at the Pines Café. Following the sunrise service at the Tramway, guests enjoy a delicious breakfast on Sunday from 6:45–10 am.
• Streetbar’s Easter Bonnet & Costume Contest invites participants to don their most creative headgear for a festive competition at Streetbar on Sunday at 2 pm, featuring prizes for the first, second, and third-place winners.
• Hunters – Studio 54 Easter Sunday Services brings a disco dream to life on Sunday from 1–9 pm. Experience Pulp Vixen live from 3–5 pm while DJ Aylex Song spins legendary hits all day long.
• Vanity’s Gospel Brunch Easter Edition features host Trinity the Tuck and a lineup of iconic queens. This high-energy celebration takes place at one eleven bar on Sunday at 12 pm.
• Easter Sunday Sundown Service showcases Vanity’s Drag King Challenge, a fierce competition where glamour meets grit. Witness next-level creativity as kings are crowned at one eleven bar on Sunday at 8 pm.

---

SAT: Self‑Advocacy in Healthcare Conference

The HIV+ Aging Research Project (HARP) hosts its second annual Self‑Advocacy in Healthcare Conference on Saturday, April 4 from 9 am–3 pm at the Mizell Center, offering a vital half‑day symposium designed to help community members navigate the often‑confusing healthcare landscape in the Coachella Valley. Open to both HARP clients and the public, this empowering event provides practical tools, guidance, and insights to help attendees advocate for themselves and others with confidence and clarity. More info

---

SAT: Flagging in the Desert

Flagging in the Desert brings its colorful, high‑energy community gathering back to Wellness Park on Saturday, April 4. The day begins with a free introductory flagging class at 10:30 am, followed by an afternoon of music from DJ Roland Belmares as colorful flags fill the park. Guests are encouraged to bring a picnic, relax in the shade, and enjoy the movement, music, and camaraderie. This free event welcomes donations benefiting Leather Order of the Desert and its community‑focused programs. More info

---

SAT: Rick Springfield

Rick Springfield comes to The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa on Saturday, April 4 at 8 pm. A Grammy winner with 25 million albums sold and 17 Top 40 singles, he’s the voice behind enduring favorites like “Jessie’s Girl,” “Don’t Talk to Strangers,” “An Affair of the Heart” and “Human Touch.” With his new album Automatic and a devoted fan base spanning generations, the concert offers a chance to experience a true pop‑rock icon live in Rancho Mirage. Get tickets

---

SAT: House Party PS: Glitz & Glam

REAF House Party PS: Glitz & Glam brings a SOLD-OUT mix of performance, style, and community spirit to the Rancho Mirage home of Steve Campbell and Rock Hall on Saturday, April 4 from 5–8 pm. Benefiting the AIDS Memorial Installation in Downtown Park and Let’s Kick ASS Palm Springs, the evening will feature appearances by Broadway’s David Burnham, Billy L’Amour, Sherie Ray Parker as Bette Midler, and emcee Bella da Ball, with DJ Galaxy providing the soundtrack that drives the party’s energy from start to finish. Guests will enjoy cocktails, wines, appetizers, a silent auction, gogo dancers from Desert Studs, and a Glitz & Glam costume contest judged by Camerone Parker, all in Summer Chic, Sparkle and Shine attire. More info

---

FRI–SAT: Beehive: The 1960s Musical Celebration

The rockin’ production of Beehive: The 1960s Musical Celebration runs through April 4 at Desert Theatreworks. This show is a groovy tribute to the powerhouse women vocalists of the 1960s, featuring chart-topping hits from legends like Aretha Franklin, Tina Turner, and Janis Joplin. Six talented performers take the audience on a nostalgic journey with 40 favorites, including “My Boyfriend’s Back” and “Son of a Preacher Man.” More info

---

FRI–SUN: Hadestown

Welcome to the underworld for a mythic tale like no other! The acclaimed production of Hadestown at the McCallum Theatre runs Friday–Sunday, April 3–5. Winner of eight Tony Awards, including Best Musical, this haunting work intertwines the stories of dreamers Orpheus and Eurydice with King Hades and Persephone. This hopeful theatrical experience is guaranteed to grab the heart and never let go. More info

---

SUN: Queer Women’s Tea Dance

Get ready to dance the afternoon away at the Queer Women’s Tea Dance, set for Sunday, April 5 from 3–6 pm at Hunters Nightclub. This lively first-Sunday-of-the-month gathering features the ultimate party band, Pulp Vixen, providing the perfect soundtrack for socializing. It is a fantastic opportunity for the community to connect and celebrate in a welcoming environment filled with music and fun. Grab your dancing shoes and head over! More info

---

Western Xposure Spring

Western Xposure returns to CCBC Resort from Thursday–Sunday, April 2–5 for four days of sun‑soaked, clothing‑optional fun designed for bears and the men who love them. With all‑day pool parties featuring DJs Carrera, Bulldog, E. Feld, Evil JP, and BodyRolls, plus free BBQ lunches, trails, play spaces, hot tubs, and a relaxed “choose your adventure” vibe, this body‑ and sex‑positive gathering invites guests to unwind, explore, and recharge in a judgment‑free desert oasis. Get tickets

---

SAT: John Legend

Prepare for a night of soulful melodies as John Legend takes the stage at Fantasy Springs Resort Casino on Saturday, April 4 from 8–10 pm. The 13-time Grammy-winning artist will perform intimate renditions of his greatest hits, including favorites like “All of Me,” “Ordinary People,” and “Tonight.” Between songs, Legend will weave together beautiful music with fascinating and unexpected stories from his life and 20-plus-year career. More info

---

FRI–SAT: ICED – Frozen Borders, Burning Hope

Experience a thought-provoking world premiere as ICED – Frozen Borders, Burning Hope takes the stage Thursday–Saturday, April 2–4 at the Palm Springs Cultural Center. This gripping dark comedy by local playwright Patricia West-Del Ruth follows the disappearance of a young asylum seeker, challenging a guard to face the moral cost of a broken system. The production features a stellar ensemble including Judith Chapman, Yo Younger, and Charles Herrera, with atmospheric effects by Nick Wass. More info

---

ALSO THIS WEEKEND

Fun and Games:

• Easter Egg Hunt at Desert Highland Park on Friday, part of the “Year of Play.” celebration of Palm Springs parks.
• Desert Legends Golf Tournament benefits The L-Fund with play at the Indian Canyons Golf Resort. Players tee off on Friday at 8:30 am, followed by a festive awards luncheon at the clubhouse.
• Kim Waltrip to Receive 487th Star on the Walk of Stars, honoring the acclaimed film producer and community leader in Downtown Palm Springs. The public dedication ceremony takes place on Friday at 2 pm.
• Palm Springs Vintage Market invites retro enthusiasts to “capture vintage with a view.” on Sunday from 7 am–2 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs. Discover high-quality antiques, upcycled treasures, and reclaimed items.

Showstoppers:

• Sunset Boulevard is Andrew Lloyd Webber’s haunting Hollywood noir tale of obsession running through April 5. This glamorous production takes place at the Palm Canyon Theatre Friday–Sunday.
• Accidental Friends runs through April 16. This film follows two very different Italian men stuck together by circumstance. This Cinema Diverse selection screens at the Palm Springs Cultural Center at 4 pm and 6:30 pm.
• New York Philharmonic String Quartet features four principal musicians from the legendary orchestra. They bring world-class chamber music to The Plaza Theatre on Saturday at 8 pm.
• Meghan Murphy: THE BIG RED SHOW! features powerhouse songstress Meghan Murphy with her electric global cabaret show at the Purple Room Supper Club on Friday–Saturday at 8 pm.
• Earth to Mars – The Bruno Mars Experience launches a free outdoor concert series with irresistible pop and funk. This tribute capturing Mars’ signature style hits the Agave Caliente Terraza at Agua Caliente Casino Cathedral City on Saturday at 8 pm.

Vibrant Local Art:

• Desert Rocks: Music Photography by Harry Langdon and Jimmy Steinfeldt runs through April 5. View iconic music history at the Artist Council Artist Center at the Galen Friday–Sunday from 10 am–4 pm.
• A Queer Arcana: Art, Magic, and Spirit runs through April 6. Explore mystical knowledge at the Palm Springs Art Museum Friday–Sunday from 10 am–5 pm, featuring spiritual practices inspired by theorist Gloria Anzaldúa.

---

ONGOING EVENTS

• FRIDAY: Friends gather for fabulous games and happy hour deals from 4:30–7 pm at Arrive Hotel during Drag Bingo at Arrive.
• SATURDAY: Kyle Young leads country dancing and line lessons from 7–9:30 pm at Step by Step Dance Studio for Dance Ranch / Country Dance Saturdays.

---

SAYKGAY to Save on Rivalry Merch

Ride the Heated Rivalry wave with a fresh batch of themed T‑shirts now available through the Pride Store. Some designs rep your favorite fictional teams from the show, while others turn up the temperature with bolder, more provocative takes. Pick your style, show your fandom, and save 10% storewide at checkout with promo code SAYKGAY – Shop Now

---

Spring 2026 Visitor Map & Guide – FREE!

Check out the Spring 2026 edition of the K‑Gay Desert Guide Visitor Map & Guide! To help you find everything you need as a visitor or local, we feature the top places for Food & Drink, Nightlife, Shopping, Attractions, Gay Resorts with passes, Dispensaries, and other services, all curated to make exploring the valley even easier. Look for the latest edition at businesses and newsstands around town, as well as at hotels, visitor centers, and participating sponsors, or view it online.

---

---

LOOKING AHEAD

MON: Palm Springs International Airport Community Update

Curious about what is taking flight at your favorite local travel hub? Head over to the Palm Springs Plaza Theatre for the Palm Springs International Airport Community Update on Monday, April 6 from 5–7 pm. This engaging session offers an inside look at exciting terminal improvements, enhanced guest experiences, and the long-range planning that keeps PSP soaring. Attendees will hear from airport leadership about upcoming capital projects and timelines for what is coming next. More info

Click below to sign up for our Gay Desert Guide Oasis Insiders Newsletter to get our Weekly Blog, Top 3 Events for the weekend, Hot Deals and Cool Events all delivered to your inbox every Friday!

---

• Desert Legends Women’s Weekend
  Apr 2–5 at Hotel Zoso
• REAF House Party PS: Glitz & Glam
  Sat. Apr 4 from 5–8 pm in Palm Springs
• Beehive: The ’60s Musical – presented by Desert TheatreWorks
  Mar 13–Apr 4
• Love! Valour! Compassion! – presented by Dezart Performs
  Apr 9–19
• World Art Day
  Sat. Apr 11 at Downtown Palm Springs Park
• Coachella Valley Local Government Vendor Fair
  Wed. Apr 15 from 8:30 am–12 pm at the Palm Springs Convention Center
• Yappy Hour at the Riviera Resort & Spa
  Thu. Apr 16 from 4–6 pm in the Desert Rose Garden
• A Night to Remember Gala
  Fri. Apr 17 at 6 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa Rancho Mirage
• Palm Springs Speaks: Jennie Garth
  Tue. Apr 21 at 7:30 pm at the Plaza Theatre
• Saving Nature Film Festival
  Wed. Apr 22 (Earth Day) at the Palm Springs Cultural Center
• Dining Out For Life
  Thu. Apr 23 at restaurants throughout Greater Palm Springs
• Rhinestones & Rainbows – presented by Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus
  Apr 24–26 at the Plaza Theatre
• Metropolitan Fashion Week – “The Way You Look Tonight”
  Sun. Apr 26 at 5 pm at Frank Sinatra Twin Palms Estate
• Rock the Park: Listen to the Music (Doobie Brothers Tribute)
  Wed. May 6 at 7 pm at Downtown Palm Springs Park

This Way Out, the award‑winning weekly LGBTQ radio program, airs every Sunday at 6:30 a.m. on KGAY 103.1 and is also available on‑demand via our streaming player under Menu>Streams>Podcasts. As the only internationally distributed LGBTQ radio show, it airs on about 200 community stations worldwide and delivers global queer news, reporting, interviews, and cultural features.

---