
Quietly, Richard Bass passed away last week, as friends lived vicariously through his final days after a Stage 4 cancer diagnosis. He documented his final month on Caring Bridge, a platform for family caregivers and the loved ones they support on a health journey.
Richard’s legacy is an organization he founded called PALS, Planning Ahead for LGBTQ+ Seniors, which he founded in 2013. Why? In his words:
As I am getting older, I am experiencing health crises and loss reminiscent of the AIDS crisis of the 80โs and 90โs. Recently, it wasnโt until a friendโs partner suddenly became paralyzed did they begin conversations as to care (now what do we do?). And when another man wasnโt responding to calls or emails, he was discovered deceased after two days with no one having access to his house. Another had prepared no legal documents, resulting in the State making determinations with no knowledge of his wishes.
With no children or affirming family members, many LGBTQ+ people face unique challenges for having such conversations in the first place. At the time, I could only wring my hands as I and others floundered.
Enough! In 2013, I set up a Steering Committee to help guide and develop programs that inform and support planning ahead, while also combating isolation, ageism and sexism in the LGBTQ+ community. I am comforted to be surrounded by scores of pals who now know how to look out for themselves and each other.
Richard’s journey ended as he wished — as a textbook PALS case. All arrangements were made, friends and family keeping tabs on him and fully supporting his wishes. We should all be so fortunate.
I worked with Richard as we were a part of the Positively Aging Conference held each September. (This year’s is Sept. 20th). I dutifully collected their information, and provided a listing on our Gay Desert Guide site for the organization. Now, I’m going to be engaging with PALS to make sure that my wishes are known. So when the time comes, I can pass with dignity like Richard did.
Brad Fuhr, your K-Gay Desert Guide
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CV Independentโs Best of Coachella Valley 2025โ2026 is now open for nominationsโand itโs time to spotlight the voices and vibes that make our community shine. Cast your vote for your favorites! We suggest, of course: KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 and 103.1 MeTV FM in Life in the Valley > Best Radio Station, John Taylor and Patrick Evans in Life in the Valley > Best Local Radio Personality, and our dynamic DJ trioโDJ Galaxy, DJ Eric Ornelas, and Modgirlโin Arts > Best Local DJ. Nominations will be accepted through Friday, August 29, so get your nominations in today!
Recap: Guadalupe’s House Party
Guadalupe’s House Party turned the Palm Springs Art Museum into a throwback this past Friday, channeling the energy of a 90s house party with live DJs, custom hat-making, and a fully operational tattoo studioโyes, the ink was real. The immersive exhibit drew a packed crowd and sold out completely, proving that nostalgia, creativity, and bold self-expression still know how to bring the house down!
TUEโSUN: The Purple Room’s 12th Season Begins
Swing back into action as Michael Holmesโ Purple Room kicks off its 12th sensational season! Weeknights at The Purple Room Supper Club are a dazzling blend of music, martinis, and mid-century magic. Enjoy all-night happy hour at the bar TuesdayโThursday, with Grammy-nominated Chris Bennett (Tue & Thu) and piano prodigy Kevin Tokarz (Wed) setting the tone from 4โ6 pm. Then settle in for live entertainment from 6:30โ9:30 pmโno ticket required, just reservations. Tuesdays feature jazz legend Rose Mallett, Wednesdays bring Darci Daniels and Michael Holmes channeling the Rat Pack era, and Thursdays bloom with La Vie en Rose, starring French violinist Jeremie Levi Samson and his Broadway-style quartet. The opening weekend kicks off with two sold-out nights of Lucie Arnaz, whose musical storytelling has wowed audiences nationwide. Then on Sunday, August 31, The Judy Show! returns in full technicolorโa hysterical parody packed with classic standards, outrageous comedy, and a whirlwind of beloved icons. Let the season begin! Get tickets
TUE: 5th Annual PSP Job Fair
Palm Springs International Airport hosts its 5th Annual Job Fair on Tuesday, August 26 from 10 amโ3 pm at the Palm Springs Convention Center Lobby. With more than 200 open positions across airlines, concessions, security, parking, and more, job seekers are invited to bring their resumes and interview on the spot. Roles include ramp agents, bartenders, retail associates, transportation security officers, and customer service representatives. More info
WED: The Center Social – August
Connect, unwind, and share good vibes at The August Center Social on Wednesday, August 27 from 5:30โ7 pm at the ACE Hotel & Swim Club and we encourage you to bring your swimwear and towel! Hosted every fourth Wednesday, this free happy hour gathering is your chance to meet friends old and new in an inclusive, welcoming setting. Bring your energy, your smile, and your curiosityโcommunity begins here. More info
FRI: Richard Marx
Experience the enduring voice behind countless romantic anthems when Richard Marx performs live on Friday, August 29 from 8 pm at The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa. From classic ballads to masterful songwriting, this special evening invites fans to reconnect with a soundtrack that has defined generations. Get tickets
ALSO THIS WEEK
Monday, August 25
Monday Night Bingo with Bella da Ball | 7โ9 pm at the Ace Hotel
Hot Spot Trivia with Deven & Ned | 7โ8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
Wednesday, August 27
Bariatric Surgery Information with Bobby Bhasker-Rao, MD | 5:30โ7 pm Eisenhower Health Virtual Meeting
Hot Spot Bingo with Deven & Ned | 7โ8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Cathedral City
Thursday, August 28
Carousel Live Retro Music | 7โ8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
VillageFest Street Fair | 7โ10 pm in Downtown Palm Springs
Friday, Aug 29
Drag Bingo/Trivia Nights (alternating) | 4:30โ7 pm at Arrive Hotel
Food Truck Fridays | 5โ10 pm in Downtown Indio
Saturday, Aug 30
LGBTQIA Higher Powered OA Meeting | 11:30 am at Sunny Dunes Clubhouse
Solar Sessions at Royal Sun Palm Springs | 12โ6 pm
Country Dance Saturdays: Goin Hamm Line Dance w/Jim Drew | 7 pm at Step by Step
Sunday, Aug 31
Guided Hikes | 11 am & 1:30 pm at San Jacinto State Park (Tramway Mountain Station)
THIS WEEKEND
Labor Day Weekend
Celebrate Labor Day Weekend 2025 in Palm Springs with sun-soaked pool parties, vibrant nightlife, and laid-back desert escapes. Whether you’re dancing under the stars or savoring a slow brunch, the city offers a perfect blend of energy and relaxation to close out summer in style. Learn more
Broadway in the Desert with Levi Kreis
Tony Award winner Levi Kreis brings his Broadway brilliance to Palm Desert for Broadway in the Desert on Saturday, August 30 from 6โ8 pm at the Spiritual Center of the Desert. Known for electrifying performancesโincluding last summerโs Brand G cruise from Venice to MaltaโKreis promises an evening of music and heart. With a strong LGBTQ+ community and welcoming vibe, the Center sets the perfect stage for this soulful celebration. VIP cocktail reception begins at 5 pm. Get tickets
Cathedral City 100th Anniversary Celebration
Cathedral City invites the community to a special 100th Anniversary Celebration: Honoring Our First Land Marker on Saturday, August 30 from 11 amโ1 pm at Mary Pickford Theatre. Guests will enjoy the premiere of Cathedral City: Built by Grit and Grace, a short film chronicling the cityโs transformation, followed by a screening of the 1963 classic Palm Springs Weekend, filmed locally at the Desert Palms Inn. Attendees will receive commemorative items and light refreshments while connecting with neighbors and local leaders to honor the cityโs rich heritage. More info
The Commodores
Get ready to groove with one of Motownโs most iconic bands when The Commodores hit the stage on Saturday, August 30 from 8 pm at The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa. With a legacy of timeless funk, soul, and R&B, their Greatest Hits Tour brings timeless energy and crowd favorites like “Brick House” and “Easy” to life in one electrifying night. Get tickets
#WorkersOverBillionaires Labor Day Weekend Demonstration
On Sunday, August 31 from 9โ10 am, community members and labor allies will gather at Highway 111 & Monterey Avenue in the Coachella Valley for #WorkersOverBillionairesโa rally to honor union workers and resist corporate overreach. Building on the momentum of May Day, this action calls for collective strength against policies that prioritize billionaires over working families. Attendees will stand in solidarity to demand equity, dignity, and a future shaped by the people. More info
Labor Day Weekend at the Tramway
The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway will offer extended hours for Labor Day Weekend from Saturday, August 30 through Monday, September 1, with earlier morning departures and later evening returns to accommodate holiday visitors. Sunday, August 31 marks the final day of the season for guided nature walks led by Mt. San Jacinto State Park volunteers, featuring two easy trails beginning at 11 am and 1:30 pm. No registration is required, making it a perfect opportunity to enjoy the mountainโs scenic beauty before summer winds down.
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- Michael Holmes’ Purple Room Re-Opens for 12th Season
Weeknights: Aug 26โ28, Lucie Arnaz Aug. 29/30 (SOLD OUT), The Judy Show! Aug 31 - Broadway in the Desert with Levi Kreis
Sat. Aug 30 at 6 pm at Spiritual Center of the Desert - CV Lip Sync Battle 2025
Sat. Sep 6 at 6 pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - Healthy Desert, Healthy You! Environmental Health Summit
Sept 11 & 12 at The Westin Rancho Mirage - September at the McCallum Theatre
The Righteous Brothers (9/10), Jon Lovitz (9/13) & more. - Gay Days Anaheim
Fri.โSun. Sep 12โ14 at Disneyland Resort - Cinema Diverse LGBTQ+ Film Festival
Thu.โSun. Sep 18โ21 and 25โ28 - Positively Aging Project HIV+ 10th Annual Conference
Sat. Sep 20 from 10 amโ3 pm at Mizell Center - Pride Under the Pines 2025 – Early Bird Tickets on Sale Now
Sat. Oct 4 in Downtown Idyllwild - Wings of Hope: A Glamorous Journey – Hanson House Fundraiser
Sat. Oct 11 from 6โ11 pm at Palm Springs Air Museum - Modernism Week – October
Oct 16โ19 – Tickets on Sale Aug 1 - Palm Springs Leather Pride 2025 – Gods of Leather
Oct 30โNov 2 at Hotel Zoso, Tool Shed, CCBC, Hunters - Mizell Center Presents Cheyenne Jackson Live in Concert
Wed. Nov 12 at 7 pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center - Dear Evan Hansen, presented by CVRep
Dec 3โ21 – Tickets on Sale Now for 2025โ2026 Season - Palm Springs International Film Festival
Jan 2โ13, 2026 – Passes on Sale Now - Palm Springs International Film Awards
Sat. Jan 3, 2026 – Tickets on Sale Now

Welcome to Coachella Valley Pride Hockey Association! Weโre thrilled to partner with this incredible organization dedicated to making hockey inclusive for LGBTQ+ athletes and allies. From beginner โLearn to Playโ classes to adult league competition, CV Pride Hockey connects the community through sport, visibility, and fun. Whether youโre picking up a stick for the first time or joining a team, weโre excited to support your cause and help grow a stronger, more inclusive hockey community in the Coachella Valley. Learn more

KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 FM
The KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 Retro Lunch airs Monday through Friday from noonโ1 pm, with DJ Galaxy (Vincent Corrales) and DJ Eric Ornelas playing an hour of their high-energy throwback mixes. On Sundays, we put all five hours together for the Retro Sunday Brunch from 11 amโ4 pm. Perfect party music! The KGAY 106.5 Sunday Tea Dance with Modgirl airs every Sunday from 4โ6 pm (right after the Retro Brunch). All our DJs took honors in the Best of Coachella Valley this year! Listen to KGAY 106.5 online
This weekend: Modgirl appears Saturday, August 30 at 2 pm for Sunset Sessions at Venice Beach Club in Venice.
KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 is giving fans a chance to experience Janet Jacksonโs final Las Vegas shows in style! Enter to WIN TWO TICKETS to Janet Jackson: Las Vegas at Resorts World, a two-night stay, and dinner for two between September 10โ20. With over 50 dining options and a legendary performance from a five-time GRAMMY winner, this is your shot at an unforgettable Vegas getaway. Enter to WIN on the KGAY Contest Page
KGAY 106.5 and 92.1 want you to WIN TICKETS to Gay Days Anaheim 2025, happening September 12โ14! Celebrate pride and magic at Disneyland Resort with thousands of LGBTQ+ fans, friends, and familiesโand an all-star lineup of special guests including Lawrence Chaney, Ginger Minj, Cheyenne Jackson, Zach Noe Towers, and Kay Sedia. Tune in and enter to winโyour Gay Days adventure starts with KGAY! Enter to WIN on the KGAY Contest Page
KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 has your chance to WIN front-row seats to the hilarious and fast-paced Hot Spot Trivia with Deven Green & Handsome Ned! Listen to John Taylor on KGAY every Monday morning for the trivia question, then head to the KGAY Contest Page to enter your answer. Winners get reserved front-row seating in the Cascade Lounge at Agua Caliente Casino on Monday night at 7 pm, where youโll play digital trivia and compete for exciting prizes! Enter to WIN on the KGAY Contest Page
To listen to KGAY Palm Springs via Alexa, say โAlexa ENABLE K. Gay Palm Springs SKILLโ (include โSKILLโ) or manually enable it in the Alexa app or at Amazon. Once enabled, access the station by saying โAlexa, OPEN,โ โLAUNCH,โ or โPLAY K. Gay Palm Springs.โ You can also make special requests, such as birthday shoutouts or song dedications! Happy streaming! Learn more
WIN TICKETS to Bee Gees Gold

Get ready to grooveโ103.1 MeTV FM and KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 are giving away tickets to Bee Gees Gold on Saturday, October 18 at the Spotlight 29 Casino Showroom! This high-energy tribute brings the legendary Bee Gees sound to life, from early hits like โMassachusettsโ and โI Started a Jokeโ to disco anthems like โStayinโ Aliveโ and โYou Should Be Dancing.โ Enter now for your chance to experience the magic live! Enter to win at the KGAY Contest Page and the MeTV FM Contest Page
103.1 MeTV FM
103.1 MeTV FM plays a variety of the ’60s, ’70s, and ’80s with a touch of the ’50s! Spend your weekdays 10 amโ3 pm with 103.1 MeTV FM and Patrick Evans: Heโll keep you up-to-date on what’s going on in the Coachella Valley, the weather, and he’ll play songs you can sing along with all day long! Listen in your car, at work, at home or around the world, online at 1031metvfm.com or tell Alexa, “Open 103.1 MeTV FM.”
WIN a $250 gift card to The Purple Room
103.1 Me TV FM invites you to Dine & Sip… on ME! Fridays this summer, Patrick Evans will give away a gift card to a featured Coachella Valley Eatery! THIS WEEK: ENTER TO WIN a $250 gift card to Purple Room Palm Springs, reopening this Tuesday August 26 for another great season. Enjoy Happy Hour at the bar all night each Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday with live jazz, cocktails and great eats. Enter to WIN on the 103.1 MeTV FM Contest Page

- Jasmine Sullivan-Waits Named Executive Director of Palm Springs Pride
- Hiking With T: An Overnight Trip to Los Coyotes Reservation, Home to Sacred, Beautiful Grounds and San Diego Countyโs Tallest Peak
- 2025 Cinema Diverse Festival Returns With Powerful LGBTQ+ Stories and Global Voices
- The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert Announces Center Stage 2025 Honorees
- 15 Must-Visit Places to Plan a Spa Day in Greater Palm Springs
Find out what’s happening on any given day by browsing our Gay Desert Guide Online Event Listing Calendar, and for the big picture, take a look at major upcoming events in our 2025 Coachella Valley Calendar of Events.

Listen to KGAY 106.5 and 92.1 over the air, stream it [here], or listen on iHeart Radio with Alexa or Siri by saying โPlay K-GAY 106 5 .โ John Taylor is on mornings 6โ10 am and program director Chris Shebel is on afternoons. Our Retro Lunch with DJ Galaxy and DJ Eric Ornelas is heard on Sundays as the Retro Lunch & Sunday Brunch from 11 amโ4 pm, followed by Modgirl spinning the KGAY Sunday Tea Dance from 4โ6 pm.

























