Gay Desert Guide Week of Aug 25 2025
Brad Fuhr

Quietly, Richard Bass passed away last week, as friends lived vicariously through his final days after a Stage 4 cancer diagnosis. He documented his final month on Caring Bridge, a platform for family caregivers and the loved ones they support on a health journey.

Richard’s legacy is an organization he founded called PALS, Planning Ahead for LGBTQ+ Seniors, which he founded in 2013. Why? In his words:

As I am getting older, I am experiencing health crises and loss reminiscent of the AIDS crisis of the 80โ€™s and 90โ€™s. Recently, it wasnโ€™t until a friendโ€™s partner suddenly became paralyzed did they begin conversations as to care (now what do we do?).  And when another man wasnโ€™t responding to calls or emails, he was discovered deceased after two days with no one having access to his house. Another had prepared no legal documents, resulting in the State making determinations with no knowledge of his wishes. 

With no children or affirming family members, many LGBTQ+ people face unique challenges for having such conversations in the first place.  At the time, I could only wring my hands as I and others floundered.

Enough!  In 2013, I set up a Steering Committee to help guide and develop programs that inform and support planning ahead, while also combating isolation, ageism and sexism in the LGBTQ+ community.  I am comforted to be surrounded by scores of pals who now know how to look out for themselves and each other.

Richard’s journey ended as he wished — as a textbook PALS case. All arrangements were made, friends and family keeping tabs on him and fully supporting his wishes. We should all be so fortunate.

I worked with Richard as we were a part of the Positively Aging Conference held each September. (This year’s is Sept. 20th). I dutifully collected their information, and provided a listing on our Gay Desert Guide site for the organization. Now, I’m going to be engaging with PALS to make sure that my wishes are known. So when the time comes, I can pass with dignity like Richard did.

Brad Fuhr, your K-Gay Desert Guide

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Nominate KGAY and Local Favorites for Best of Coachella Valley

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CV Independentโ€™s Best of Coachella Valley 2025โ€“2026 is now open for nominationsโ€”and itโ€™s time to spotlight the voices and vibes that make our community shine. Cast your vote for your favorites! We suggest, of course: KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 and 103.1 MeTV FM in Life in the Valley > Best Radio Station, John Taylor and Patrick Evans in Life in the Valley > Best Local Radio Personality, and our dynamic DJ trioโ€”DJ Galaxy, DJ Eric Ornelas, and Modgirlโ€”in Arts > Best Local DJ. Nominations will be accepted through Friday, August 29, so get your nominations in today!


Recap: Guadalupe’s House Party

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Guadalupe’s House Party turned the Palm Springs Art Museum into a throwback this past Friday, channeling the energy of a 90s house party with live DJs, custom hat-making, and a fully operational tattoo studioโ€”yes, the ink was real. The immersive exhibit drew a packed crowd and sold out completely, proving that nostalgia, creativity, and bold self-expression still know how to bring the house down!


TUEโ€“SUN: The Purple Room’s 12th Season Begins

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Swing back into action as Michael Holmesโ€™ Purple Room kicks off its 12th sensational season! Weeknights at The Purple Room Supper Club are a dazzling blend of music, martinis, and mid-century magic. Enjoy all-night happy hour at the bar Tuesdayโ€“Thursday, with Grammy-nominated Chris Bennett (Tue & Thu) and piano prodigy Kevin Tokarz (Wed) setting the tone from 4โ€“6 pm. Then settle in for live entertainment from 6:30โ€“9:30 pmโ€”no ticket required, just reservations. Tuesdays feature jazz legend Rose Mallett, Wednesdays bring Darci Daniels and Michael Holmes channeling the Rat Pack era, and Thursdays bloom with La Vie en Rose, starring French violinist Jeremie Levi Samson and his Broadway-style quartet. The opening weekend kicks off with two sold-out nights of Lucie Arnaz, whose musical storytelling has wowed audiences nationwide. Then on Sunday, August 31, The Judy Show! returns in full technicolorโ€”a hysterical parody packed with classic standards, outrageous comedy, and a whirlwind of beloved icons. Let the season begin! Get tickets


TUE: 5th Annual PSP Job Fair

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Palm Springs International Airport hosts its 5th Annual Job Fair on Tuesday, August 26 from 10 amโ€“3 pm at the Palm Springs Convention Center Lobby. With more than 200 open positions across airlines, concessions, security, parking, and more, job seekers are invited to bring their resumes and interview on the spot. Roles include ramp agents, bartenders, retail associates, transportation security officers, and customer service representatives. More info


WED: The Center Social – August

The Center Social August

Connect, unwind, and share good vibes at The August Center Social on Wednesday, August 27 from 5:30โ€“7 pm at the ACE Hotel & Swim Club and we encourage you to bring your swimwear and towel! Hosted every fourth Wednesday, this free happy hour gathering is your chance to meet friends old and new in an inclusive, welcoming setting. Bring your energy, your smile, and your curiosityโ€”community begins here. More info


FRI: Richard Marx

Richard Marx

Experience the enduring voice behind countless romantic anthems when Richard Marx performs live on Friday, August 29 from 8 pm at The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa. From classic ballads to masterful songwriting, this special evening invites fans to reconnect with a soundtrack that has defined generations. Get tickets


ALSO THIS WEEK

Monday, August 25
Monday Night Bingo with Bella da Ball | 7โ€“9 pm at the Ace Hotel
Hot Spot Trivia with Deven & Ned | 7โ€“8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs

Wednesday, August 27
Bariatric Surgery Information with Bobby Bhasker-Rao, MD | 5:30โ€“7 pm Eisenhower Health Virtual Meeting
Hot Spot Bingo with Deven & Ned | 7โ€“8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Cathedral City

Thursday, August 28
Carousel Live Retro Music | 7โ€“8:30 pm at Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs
VillageFest Street Fair
| 7โ€“10 pm in Downtown Palm Springs

Friday, Aug 29
Drag Bingo/Trivia Nights (alternating) | 4:30โ€“7 pm at Arrive Hotel
Food Truck Fridays | 5โ€“10 pm in Downtown Indio

Saturday, Aug 30
LGBTQIA Higher Powered OA Meeting | 11:30 am at Sunny Dunes Clubhouse
Solar Sessions at Royal Sun Palm Springs | 12โ€“6 pm
Country Dance Saturdays: Goin Hamm Line Dance w/Jim Drew | 7 pm at Step by Step

Sunday, Aug 31
Guided Hikes | 11 am & 1:30 pm at San Jacinto State Park (Tramway Mountain Station)



THIS WEEKEND

Labor Day Weekend

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Celebrate Labor Day Weekend 2025 in Palm Springs with sun-soaked pool parties, vibrant nightlife, and laid-back desert escapes. Whether you’re dancing under the stars or savoring a slow brunch, the city offers a perfect blend of energy and relaxation to close out summer in style. Learn more


Broadway in the Desert with Levi Kreis

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Tony Award winner Levi Kreis brings his Broadway brilliance to Palm Desert for Broadway in the Desert on Saturday, August 30 from 6โ€“8 pm at the Spiritual Center of the Desert. Known for electrifying performancesโ€”including last summerโ€™s Brand G cruise from Venice to Maltaโ€”Kreis promises an evening of music and heart. With a strong LGBTQ+ community and welcoming vibe, the Center sets the perfect stage for this soulful celebration. VIP cocktail reception begins at 5 pm. Get tickets


Cathedral City 100th Anniversary Celebration

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Cathedral City invites the community to a special 100th Anniversary Celebration: Honoring Our First Land Marker on Saturday, August 30 from 11 amโ€“1 pm at Mary Pickford Theatre. Guests will enjoy the premiere of Cathedral City: Built by Grit and Grace, a short film chronicling the cityโ€™s transformation, followed by a screening of the 1963 classic Palm Springs Weekend, filmed locally at the Desert Palms Inn. Attendees will receive commemorative items and light refreshments while connecting with neighbors and local leaders to honor the cityโ€™s rich heritage. More info


The Commodores

The Commodores Live

Get ready to groove with one of Motownโ€™s most iconic bands when The Commodores hit the stage on Saturday, August 30 from 8 pm at The Show at Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa. With a legacy of timeless funk, soul, and R&B, their Greatest Hits Tour brings timeless energy and crowd favorites like “Brick House” and “Easy” to life in one electrifying night. Get tickets


#WorkersOverBillionaires Labor Day Weekend Demonstration

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On Sunday, August 31 from 9โ€“10 am, community members and labor allies will gather at Highway 111 & Monterey Avenue in the Coachella Valley for #WorkersOverBillionairesโ€”a rally to honor union workers and resist corporate overreach. Building on the momentum of May Day, this action calls for collective strength against policies that prioritize billionaires over working families. Attendees will stand in solidarity to demand equity, dignity, and a future shaped by the people. More info


Labor Day Weekend at the Tramway

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The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway will offer extended hours for Labor Day Weekend from Saturday, August 30 through Monday, September 1, with earlier morning departures and later evening returns to accommodate holiday visitors. Sunday, August 31 marks the final day of the season for guided nature walks led by Mt. San Jacinto State Park volunteers, featuring two easy trails beginning at 11 am and 1:30 pm. No registration is required, making it a perfect opportunity to enjoy the mountainโ€™s scenic beauty before summer winds down.


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Check out our Summer 2025 Edition of the K-Gay Desert Guide Visitor Map & Guide! To help you find everything you need as a visitor or local, we feature the top places for Food & Drink, Nightlife, Shopping, Attractions, Gay Resorts with passes, Dispensaries, and other services. Look for the latest edition at businesses and newsstands around town, or browse it online right here!


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Featured Events
Welcome New Partners
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Welcome to Coachella Valley Pride Hockey Association! Weโ€™re thrilled to partner with this incredible organization dedicated to making hockey inclusive for LGBTQ+ athletes and allies. From beginner โ€œLearn to Playโ€ classes to adult league competition, CV Pride Hockey connects the community through sport, visibility, and fun. Whether youโ€™re picking up a stick for the first time or joining a team, weโ€™re excited to support your cause and help grow a stronger, more inclusive hockey community in the Coachella Valley. Learn more

On the Air

KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 FM

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The KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 Retro Lunch airs Monday through Friday from noonโ€“1 pm, with DJ Galaxy (Vincent Corrales) and DJ Eric Ornelas playing an hour of their high-energy throwback mixes. On Sundays, we put all five hours together for the Retro Sunday Brunch from 11 amโ€“4 pm. Perfect party music! The KGAY 106.5 Sunday Tea Dance with Modgirl airs every Sunday from 4โ€“6 pm (right after the Retro Brunch). All our DJs took honors in the Best of Coachella Valley this year! Listen to KGAY 106.5 online

This weekend: Modgirl appears Saturday, August 30 at 2 pm for Sunset Sessions at Venice Beach Club in Venice.


Janet Las Vegas

KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 is giving fans a chance to experience Janet Jacksonโ€™s final Las Vegas shows in style! Enter to WIN TWO TICKETS to Janet Jackson: Las Vegas at Resorts World, a two-night stay, and dinner for two between September 10โ€“20. With over 50 dining options and a legendary performance from a five-time GRAMMY winner, this is your shot at an unforgettable Vegas getaway. Enter to WIN on the KGAY Contest Page


Gay Days 2025 Special Guests

KGAY 106.5 and 92.1 want you to WIN TICKETS to Gay Days Anaheim 2025, happening September 12โ€“14! Celebrate pride and magic at Disneyland Resort with thousands of LGBTQ+ fans, friends, and familiesโ€”and an all-star lineup of special guests including Lawrence Chaney, Ginger Minj, Cheyenne Jackson, Zach Noe Towers, and Kay Sedia. Tune in and enter to winโ€”your Gay Days adventure starts with KGAY! Enter to WIN on the KGAY Contest Page


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KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 has your chance to WIN front-row seats to the hilarious and fast-paced Hot Spot Trivia with Deven Green & Handsome Ned! Listen to John Taylor on KGAY every Monday morning for the trivia question, then head to the KGAY Contest Page to enter your answer. Winners get reserved front-row seating in the Cascade Lounge at Agua Caliente Casino on Monday night at 7 pm, where youโ€™ll play digital trivia and compete for exciting prizes! Enter to WIN on the KGAY Contest Page


To listen to KGAY Palm Springs via Alexa, say โ€œAlexa ENABLE K. Gay Palm Springs SKILLโ€ (include โ€œSKILLโ€) or manually enable it in the Alexa app or at Amazon. Once enabled, access the station by saying โ€œAlexa, OPEN,โ€ โ€œLAUNCH,โ€ or โ€œPLAY K. Gay Palm Springs.โ€ You can also make special requests, such as birthday shoutouts or song dedications! Happy streaming! Learn more


WIN TICKETS to Bee Gees Gold

Bee Gees Gold Tribute

Get ready to grooveโ€”103.1 MeTV FM and KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 are giving away tickets to Bee Gees Gold on Saturday, October 18 at the Spotlight 29 Casino Showroom! This high-energy tribute brings the legendary Bee Gees sound to life, from early hits like โ€œMassachusettsโ€ and โ€œI Started a Jokeโ€ to disco anthems like โ€œStayinโ€™ Aliveโ€ and โ€œYou Should Be Dancing.โ€ Enter now for your chance to experience the magic live! Enter to win at the KGAY Contest Page and the MeTV FM Contest Page


103.1 MeTV FM

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103.1 MeTV FM plays a variety of the ’60s, ’70s, and ’80s with a touch of the ’50s! Spend your weekdays 10 amโ€“3 pm with 103.1 MeTV FM and Patrick Evans: Heโ€™ll keep you up-to-date on what’s going on in the Coachella Valley, the weather, and he’ll play songs you can sing along with all day long! Listen in your car, at work, at home or around the world, online at 1031metvfm.com or tell Alexa, “Open 103.1 MeTV FM.”


WIN a $250 gift card to The Purple Room

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103.1 Me TV FM invites you to Dine & Sip… on ME! Fridays this summer, Patrick Evans will give away a gift card to a featured Coachella Valley Eatery! THIS WEEK: ENTER TO WIN a $250 gift card to Purple Room Palm Springs, reopening this Tuesday August 26 for another great season. Enjoy Happy Hour at the bar all night each Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday with live jazz, cocktails and great eats. Enter to WIN on the 103.1 MeTV FM Contest Page

Bookmarks
  1. Jasmine Sullivan-Waits Named Executive Director of Palm Springs Pride
  2. Hiking With T: An Overnight Trip to Los Coyotes Reservation, Home to Sacred, Beautiful Grounds and San Diego Countyโ€™s Tallest Peak
  3. 2025 Cinema Diverse Festival Returns With Powerful LGBTQ+ Stories and Global Voices
  4. The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert Announces Center Stage 2025 Honorees
  5. 15 Must-Visit Places to Plan a Spa Day in Greater Palm Springs

Find out what’s happening on any given day by browsing our Gay Desert Guide Online Event Listing Calendar, and for the big picture, take a look at major upcoming events in our 2025 Coachella Valley Calendar of Events.

KGAY 106.5 & 92.1 Palm Springs Radio

Listen to KGAY 106.5 and 92.1 over the air, stream it [here], or listen on iHeart Radio with Alexa or Siri by saying โ€œPlay K-GAY 106 5 .โ€ John Taylor is on mornings 6โ€“10 am and program director Chris Shebel is on afternoons. Our Retro Lunch with DJ Galaxy and DJ Eric Ornelas is heard on Sundays as the Retro Lunch & Sunday Brunch from 11 amโ€“4 pm, followed by Modgirl spinning the KGAY Sunday Tea Dance from 4โ€“6 pm.