We are preparing (and you should be too) for a major storm – Hurricane Hillary – to strike our area over the weekend. While I wrote about our wild weather on Monday, I had no idea that I would be writing about it again.

This time, it’s much more ominous. As I check the forecast maps, it’s not looking good for our entire area. So we are joining the cadre of local officials, forecasters and disaster preparedness experts to be “better safe than sorry”.

This will certainly put a damper on all the events scheduled, including our Top 3 which are all outdoor events. As the weather deteriorates and we hear of cancellations, our team will be keeping you updated on our socials, online and on KGAY 106.5 and KMEE 103.1.

The Emergency Alert System will be activated by the National Weather Service and local officials as needed. When you hear the tones on the air, please pay attention to the information. The biggest issue first responders deal with in the valley are stupid people trying to drive through flooded streets. Don’t be one of them. Again, stay tuned to KGAY & KMEE as this storm develops.

Brad Fuhr, your Gay Desert Guide on KGAY 106.5 Palm Springs

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Big Bear ROMP

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Bears, Cubs and a diverse group of men convene for Big Bear ROMP, an amazing 4 days in the mountain resort town of Big Bear Lake from August 17–20. This weekend of fun and adventure starts with a pool party, welcome party, and Wild Things dance on Friday. On Saturday, a pool party leads to Phil’s Trivia, Mountain of Laughs Comedy Night with Taylor Williamson, and ROMP in the Dark, a leather and gear dance. Sunday features a bitchy bingo with Chiklet, Bear Soup Pool Party, and the closing Diehards and Stayhouts Party…it’s “Mountains of Men & Mischief!” 🌧️ Rain or shine, Big Bear ROMP will host events indoors if necessary 🌧️ Walk-up passes available for several events. More info

Beneath the Desert Sky: Mojave Lords & Friends

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🌧️UPDATE: This event has been canceled due to anticipated heavy rains this weekend. 🌧️ The Joshua Tree National Park Association presents Beneath the Desert Sky on Saturday, August 19 from 7–10 pm at Pappy + Harriet’s in Pioneertown. This unforgettable night of music will feature performances by Mojave Lords, Flames of Durga, and C’est Claire Music. The renowned Pappy + Harriet’s is a legendary venue known for its intimate and electrifying performances.

Plunge After Dark


🌧️UPDATE: This event has been canceled due to anticipated heavy rains this weekend. 🌧️ The Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert presents Plunge After Dark on Saturday, August 19 from 4–10 pm at CCBC Resort. This is not your ordinary pool party. They’re taking it to a whole new level with jaw-dropping hot-bodied men and sexy gentlemen. Make new, and rekindle old friendships, while you play, frolic and have plenty of fun. Dive into the refreshing pool and let the music take over as talented DJ Peter Barona spins the hottest beats. A variety of mouthwatering food options and cocktails are available at Runway Bar & Restaurant, on-premise.

Out on the Mountain

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Out on the Mountain takes place Friday, August 18 at Six Flags Magic Mountain. This is the annual party for the LGBTQ community where you can get your gay thrills on with lots of rides, dance music, and entertainment, while also raising funds for local LGBTQ organizations and charities. Enjoy a full park private party of inclusive fun for 5,000+ LGBTQ guests and friends from 6 pm–12 am, as well as admission alongside the general public from 10:30 am–6 pm. Featuring performances by Salina Estitties, hosted by Delta Work, with dance music from DJ Ray Rhodes on the Full Throttle Stage, DJ SRO at the Metro Park Pub, and DJ Les Ortiz spinning Latin Dance. Get tickets

Splash House August Weekend 2

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🌧️ In the event of anticipated heavy rains, Splash House will host events indoors if necessary 🌧️Splash House is celebrating 10 years of dancing in the desert with their final weekend of festivities for this year, Splash House August Weekend 2, from August 18–20. Splash House is a summer festival series that takes place across multiple weekends at three hotel resorts in Palm Springs: the Renaissance, the Saguaro and Margaritaville. Each resort is a full takeover hosting a poolside stage, rooms, and balconies that are all part of the fun. Artists appearing on August Weekend 2 include DRAMA, Flight Facilities, Matroda, SIDEPIECE, Skream, Tchami and many more. Desert days continue into the night for the After Hours series, with dancing aside the planes and under the stars at the Palm Springs Air Museum, with Chris Lake, a DJ Set by Channel Tres, plus Kream and more. Get tickets


The Coachella Valley Independent‘s annual Best of Coachella Valley reader’s poll is now accepting nominations, a fill-in-the-blank round that is open through Tuesday, September 5. We would love a repeat of our wins last year! Write-in your nominations for Best Local DJ under the “Arts” section: KGAY 106.5 Retro Lunch Djs: DJ Eric Ornelas and DJ Galaxy, and DJ Modgirl of the KGAY Sunday Tea Dance! Then, under the “Life in the Valley” section, for Best Local Radio Personality please consider John Taylor of the KGAY 106.5 Morning Show, and finally, also under “Life in the Valley,” for Best Radio Station, please nominate KGAY 106.5 of course! Nominate Today

Broadway to the BIG SCREEN – Mamma Mia! – Here We Go Again

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Every Saturday this summer, the Palm Springs Cultural Center presents the great musicals that made it from Broadway to the BIG SCREEN (and sometimes back again). On Saturday, August 19 at 4 pm, the featured film is Mamma Mia! – Here We Go Again, taking us back to the Greek Isles for some flashbacks from Donna’s youth and then to the present day. Donna has passed away, her pregnant daughter Sophie has returned to Kalokairi with dreams of reopening her mother’s business, and gathering all her friends and family. She also finds that she wants to know more about her mother. Hilarity, surprises, tears, and even Cher ensue (along with lots of great ABBA music!) MeTV 103.1 fm is a proud media sponsor of the Broadway to the BIG SCREEN Film Series! Get tickets

Sing Along With Us – Kiss Me Kate

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The Palm Springs Cultural Center presents classic movie musicals in the Sing Along With Us Film Series all summer long, on the largest screen in the valley at the Historic Camelot Theatre. The Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus will lead the singing. On Sunday, August 20 at 3 pm, come sing along to Kiss Me Kate. An ex-husband and wife team star in a musical version of ‘The Taming of the Shrew’; off-stage, the production is troublesome with ex-lovers’ quarrels and two gangsters looking for some money. Gay Desert Guide and KGAY 106.5 Palm Springs are proud media sponsors of the Sing Along With Us This Summer Film Series! Get tickets

🙌 You can enter to win tickets to Sing Along With Us on the KGAY Contest Page! 🙌

Cold Nose, Warm Heart Grand Reopening

Cold Nose Warm Heart New Location

Cold Nose, Warm Heart is welcoming all wagging tails to their Grand Reopening from Friday, August 18–Monday, August 21, open 10 am–6 pm each day. Their new location has off-street parking at 453 E. Tahquitz Canyon, between Sherman’s Deli and Alex’s Pet Grooming, across from the Hilton Palm Springs. Come check out their well-heeled selection of treats, toys, leashes, collars, and clothing for your furry friend! Locally and LGBTQ-owned for 26 years. More info

Feed a Giraffe for Free

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Now through Labor Day, The Living Desert Zoo & Gardens will be giving all full-price ticketed guests a FREE giraffe feeding encounter. Create an unforgettable memory while visiting The Living Desert, voted one of the 10 Best Zoos in the U.S. by Conde Nast Traveler. Do you live here and not visit the Zoo? You’re missing out! And a yearly membership will pay for itself in two or three visits! More info

🦒WIN Labor Day Weekend tickets to The Living Desert on the KGAY Contest Page!🦒

Country Dance Fridays

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Dance Ranch Palm Springs presents Country Dance Fridays, a great night of country western dancing, including two-step, waltz, shadow, East and West Coast swing and line dances, every Friday from 7–9:30 pm at Step by Step. The dance lesson is at 7 pm with dancing from 7:30–9:30 pm. Dance Ranch Palm Springs is a country western dance group serving the LGBTQ+ community and its friends. Country dancers of all levels are welcome. More info

Indio Food Truck Fridays

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The City of Indio presents a weekly Food Truck Fridays event, from 5–10 pm at Towne Street and Bliss Avenue. Check out the array of food served by the finest food trucks in the area, including 760 Teppanyaki, Outside the Masa, Fatboy Tacos, Nick’s Pizza, Luigis, Los Kekas, Tacos El Javi, El Sonorennse Taco, and many more! Regardless of what you are craving, Food Truck Fridays has you covered. More info

Drive to Survive! The Race Against Hunger

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The Greater Palm Springs Realtors summer food drive, Drive To Survive! The Race Against Hunger, benefiting the LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert’s Community Food Bank, is happening now thru September 15. Food insecurity is real, and together we can help ease the burden on our hungry neighbors. You are invited to drop food items off at the Greater Palm Springs Realtors office from 9 am–5 pm on Mondays and 8 am–5 pm Tuesdays–Fridays. They’re accepting nonperishable food items, or you can also make monetary donations to support the critical services that the food bank provides. More info

Visitor Map & Guide Summer Edition

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The Summer 2023 edition of our Gay Desert Guide Visitor Map & Guide (great for locals too) is available now around town and online! We help you find everything you need to know while visiting or living in the Coachella Valley, featuring the top places for Food & Drink, Nightlife, Shopping, Attractions, Gay Resorts with passes, Dispensaries and other services. You can also view it online, and download the PDF [here].


Center Social at Hunters

The Center Social at Hunters

Join the LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert on the 4th Wednesday of each month for The Center Social, a mixer of fun, community, and happy hour! This month, the August Center Social is on Wednesday, August 23, from 5:30–7 pm at Hunters Nightclub Palm Springs. We can’t wait to celebrate Gay Desert’s Guide ‘s 10th Anniversary, Hunters’ 25th Anniversary and Mike Thompson’s return to The Center! Spread the word—everyone is invited. Gay Desert Guide is happy to be this month’s media sponsor! More info

Randy Rainbow at The McCallum

Randy Rainbow for President

Randy Rainbow, The New York Times best-selling author and four-time EMMY® and GRAMMY®-nominated American comedian, producer, actor, singer, writer, and satirist known for his popular YouTube series, The Randy Rainbow Show, comes to the McCallum stage on Sunday, October 15 at 7 pm. Rainbow (yes, that’s his real name) enjoys a star-studded fan base that regularly retweets and shares his work. Touring the U.S. to sold-out crowds, the influencer and Internet sensation’s viral comedy videos have received hundreds of millions of views across all social media and digital platforms. Get tickets

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Win Tickets to Gay Days Anaheim

Gay Days Anaheim 2023

KGAY 106.5 & Gay Desert Guide welcomes Gay Days Anaheim back September 22–24, and you can win VIP GOLD tickets to join all the handsome princes and the evil queens at Gay Days at Disneyland, a three-day weekend of parties, shows and events that make the happiest place on earth the gayest every year! VIP GOLD tickets get you special admission to shows, meet and greet with performers Zach Zimmerman, Daya Betty, Lady Camden, and Varla Jean Merman, Plunge pool party admission, exclusive VIP cocktail party, gift bag, commemorative pin and more! Enter to win on the KGAY Contest Page!

Win Tickets to Feed the Giraffes

Free Giraffe Feeding Limited Time Offer Living Desert

Have you ever wanted to get up-close and personal with the world’s tallest mammal? Do you dream of gazing eye-to-eye with a giraffe while hand-feeding it lettuce? Who doesn’t, right? Well now you can! From now through September 4, The Living Desert Zoo and Gardens is giving all full-price ticketed guests a FREE giraffe feeding encounter. Enter to WIN tickets to be used 9/2/23 through 9/4/23 on the KGAY Contest Page!

Vacaya Resort Sweepstakes

You can WIN 7 nights at an all-inclusive resort vacation for 2 during VACAYA’s Mexico Resort Takeover! The complimentary room includes: Beautiful accommodations for 7 nights at Hilton Vallarta Riviera, unlimited standard drinks for length of stay, delicious food in 7 restaurants, including a bountiful buffet open for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, plus a fitness center, pool and beach volleyball, kayaking & snorkeling on site, yoga classes, and of course, all the VACAYA signature activities, parties, and entertainment! SIGN UP TO WIN

Win Summer Sing Along Tickets

Sing Along 2023 Singin in the Rain

Musicals are back on the big screen this summer at the Palm Springs Cultural Center and you can WIN tickets from KGAY 106.5 & Gay Desert Guide! Your favorite Broadway musicals that made it on the big screen are on the biggest screen in the valley (with hot buttered popcorn and your favorite beverage) on Sundays at 3 pm, with the Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus leading the Sing Along. More information on the series here and you can enter to win tickets on the KGAY Contest Page!

The KGAY 106.5 Retro Lunch airs Monday through Friday at noon, with DJ Galaxy (Vincent Corrales) and DJ Eric Ornelas playing an hour of their high-energy throwback mixes. On Sundays, we put all five hours together for the Retro Sunday Brunch from 11 am–4 pm. Perfect party music! Listen Online.

DJ Modgirl Rainbow Circle

The KGAY Sunday Tea Dance with DJ Modgirl airs every Sunday from 4–6 pm (right after the Retro Brunch). DJ Modgirl (AKA Kellee McQuinn) is all about “Music! Dancing! Fashion! Fun!” and she throws down the most irresistible, uplifting beats each week! Listen online. She’s also appearing at The Rowan Window Bar on Thursday from 7–10 pm.

On the Air: 103.1 MeTV fm

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Join MeTV fm this weekend for a Singer-Songwriters Weekend, featuring the timeless and memorable music of Harry Chapin, Bob Dylan, Gordon Lightfoot, James Taylor and so many others. It all begins in the 7 pm hour Friday on 103.1 MeTV fm or listen online! 103.1 MeTV fm is KGAY’s sister station, featuring a unique mix of timeless and memorable music incorporating a wide variety of classic hits, deep tracks and softer sounds spanning several decades of popular music, including the ‘60s and ‘70s with a touch of the ‘50s and ‘80s. Listen online


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We also have Hot Deals at Papa Dan’s Pizza & Pasta, Boozehounds, Destination PSP, Rick’s Desert Grill, Hunters Nightclub, Trevor Wayne Pop Art, Kitchen 86, Palm Springs Fine Men’s Salon, Men’s Grooming Spot, The Purple Room, Jolene’s Bar & Lounge, Zin American Bistro and more! See All Deals

Find out what’s happening on any given day by browsing our Gay Desert Guide Online Event Listing Calendar, and for the big picture, take a look at major upcoming events in our 2023-24 Coachella Valley Calendar of Events.

Listen to KGAY 106.5 over the air, stream it [here], or listen on TuneIn Radio with Alexa or Siri by saying “Play K-GAY 1065 from Tune In Radio.” John Taylor is on mornings 6–10 am and program director Chris Shebel is on afternoons. Our Retro Lunch with DJ Galaxy and DJ Eric Ornelas is now heard on Sundays as the Retro Lunch & Sunday Brunch from 11 am–4 pm, followed by DJ Modgirl spinning the KGAY Sunday Tea Dance from 4–6 pm.

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Don’t miss “This Way Out,Sundays at 6:30 a.m. on KGAY 106.5. “This Way Out” is the only internationally distributed weekly LGBTQ radio program, currently airing on some 200 local community radio stations around the world. Listen to the latest episode as a podcast on our streaming page (click “Podcasts” in the upper right hand corner)