Wishing you and yours a happy holiday from the entire GayDesertGuide team!

GayDesertGuide.LGBT Team 2020
Most of the GayDesertGuide team celebrating on Zoom for our virtual holiday party 2020.



Stay Safe and Stay Home (except to shop and order carryout).

Brad Fuhr, your Gay Desert Guide

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I Love Gay Palm Springs Podcast – Episode 77

EP 77 ILGPS PODCASTJohn Taylor, comedian Shann Carr, and Brad Fuhr of GayDesertGuide.com are joined by DJ Galaxy, volunteer holiday meal maker Vincent Corrales of vjcproductions.com   …author and poet Lorenzo Taylor has a special 2020 “Visit from Saint Anthony (Fauci) version of ’Twas the Night Before Christmas…Shann has her top LGBTQ+ holiday movie picks…Brad runs down events in the Gay Desert Guide: This Week in #ILoveGayPalmSprings newsletter …and we are treated to a virtual holiday carol by a chorus of local entertainers including Ron Pass, Jeffrey Barnett, Michele Weiss, Mark Richards, Carol Kamenis, Mark Lee, Charles Herrera, Steve Knill, Tommy Dodson, Jerome Elliott and Alexander Rodriguez of ontherocksradioshow.com

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OutAt TV ILGPSThe I Love Gay Palm Springs Podcast is now available on Apple TV, Roku TV, Amazon FireTV and Android devices via OutAt.tv. Tune in Friday mornings at 10:00 a.m. to stream us to your TV! (Also available on demand after it airs).

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Community Drive-In Christmas Eve Service

Community Drive-In Christmas Eve Bloom DesertJoin Bloom In The Desert Ministries United Church Of Christ and the Palm Springs Cultural Center on Thursday, December 24 at 7:00 p.m. for a Community Drive-In Christmas Eve Service with social distancing and mandatory mask wearing. In a drive-in style evening of virtual celebration and worship, this unique experience is open to people of all faiths and congregations, featuring some of the most recognizable and revered local musicians, familiar carols, Bible stories, and the luminaria display, which will fill everyone with joy this holiday season. Enjoy holiday favorites from Keisha D, Tommy Dodson, Charles Herrera, Jerome Elliott, Charlie Creasy, Mark Richards and Elaine Wang Meyerhoffer. More info

Women’s Xmas Chat Special Event

Womens ChatThe LGBTQ Center of the Desert presents Women’s Xmas Chat hosted by Kim Kieler on Christmas Morning, Friday, December 25 at 11:00 a.m. Drop by to wish friends Merry Christmas, share a Christmas joke, share your worst Xmas, your best Xmas, or just say hi. Zoom event, registration required. More info

Fun & Games Dept Events in January

GDG Fun Games Dept Shann CarrMark your calendar for these Gay Desert Guide Fun & Games Dept. events early in the New Year! We are adding some fun twists to the Virtual Speed Dating format with themed nights hosted by Alexander Rodriguez, and presenting our first in-person event in a long time: a safely distanced “walk in the park” with Comedian Shann Carr, and much more!

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Instagram I Love Gay Palm Springs Pride 2020Calling all Photographers (And Models!)

We would love to feature local photographers on our #ILoveGayPalmSprings Instagram feed, please [check it out] and direct message us there if you are interested in having your work featured in our gallery!  We are especially looking for #MCM (#ManCrushMonday) and #WCW (#WomanCrushWednesday) candidates from the Coachella Valley.  We’re especially interested if you’ve done something of note – whether it be volunteering, publishing a book or blog or whatever your connection is to the Coachella Valley.

Saturday Wine Tasting at Bouschet

Bouschet Wine Staff Favorites Dec 2020Chef TigJoin the Bouschet crew for their Saturday Wine Tasting this week on Saturday, December 26 at 4:00 p.m. Featured Staff Favorites this week: Les Tuilieres Sancerre 2018, Cigar Zinfandel 2018, Van Ruiten Davis Road Red 2016, and Trefethen Merlot 2018. All tastings include a gourmet food sampling specially selected and prepared by Tig & Co. The kit includes the wine samples, tasting notes and 10% off featured products. Choose curbside pickup or delivery and then participate from home via Zoom! They also offer a great take-away menu with full meals created by Chef Tig, packaged and ready to pick up (short ribs, chicken enchiladas, cauliflower tika masala, and more). More info


Turning of the Year, A Show of Hope

DAP Turning of the Year 2020 FacesSay farewell to 2020 and get ready for 2021 with Turning of the Year, A Show of Hope on Wednesday, December 30 at 6:00 p.m. on Zoom. This hour-long program will unite performers from Broadway and the best of Palm Springs to reflect, heal, and hope on the turning of the year. Donations of any amount will benefit Desert AIDS Project. Among those scheduled to appear: Karen Mason, Jim. J. Bullock, Keisha D, Ben Zook and Joe Dietl, Jerome Elliott, Ron Pass, Modern Men Coachella Valley Men’s Chorus, David Green’s Musical Theatre University, Palm Springs Dance Project, Charles Peery, Kristin Olson, and Dan the Mixologist for an evening of performance and creative engagement. More info

New Year’s Eve Gourmet to Go

Brothers NYE GourmetBrothers Desert Gourmet NYE 2020 MealCelebrate the end of the year and support Brothers of the Desert with their New Year’s Eve Gourmet to Go dinner and dance party on Thursday, December 31 at 8:30 p.m. This four-course gourmet experience will be delivered to your door, featuring: charcuterie and sparking line from Bouschet, salad by private chef Michael Taylor, entrees by 1501 Uptown Gastropub (a new restaurant collaboration between chef Chad Gardner from 533 Viet Fusion and Willie Rhine from restaurant 849), and dessert from chef Andre Carthen. After dinner, the virtual dance party kicks off with house music from famed dance clubs around the country, with entertainment and opportunities to interact with other party-goers. Support Brothers of the Desert in their mission to empower Black gay men and allies, while enjoying a fabulous, safe New Year’s Eve celebration! Get tickets

 Big Gay Trivia: “I Need Time Away From My Family” Edition

Big Gay Trivia "Get Me Away From My Family" EditionGay Desert Guide’s Fun & Games Dept. and TheMenEvent.com present Big Gay Trivia “Get Me Away From My Family” Edition on Tuesday, December 29 at 4:00 p.m. on Zoom. When you find yourself a little tired from being around your family too much, get together with The Gays for a night of fun and lunacy! Our Trivia contests are so entertaining because we make the questions easy and enjoyable for everyone. TheMenEvent founder Hugh Hysell will be your host for this evening that you can enjoy from the comfort of you home. More info

Tour the Tom of Finland Exhibit

Join Stonewall National Museum & Archives on Tuesday, December 29 at 6:30 p.m. for a virtual tour of the Tom of Finland exhibition at Galerie Judin in Berlin. Tom of Finland’s drawings of well-built men in rugged attire and his depictions of man-to-man lust shaped a strong image of gay identity. He drew males having sex without shame, proud and full of confidence. This event is free and open to the public, registration required. Former Creative Director of Bruno Gmunder Books, Mischa Gawronski, will be leading the tour, with Stonewall National Museum Executive Director Hunter O’Hanian. Be sure not to miss it! More info

Virtual Studio Visit with Phillip K. Smith III

Phillip K SmithJoin artist Phillip K. Smith III and Palm Springs Art Museum’s Chief Curator & Director of Curatorial Affairs and Programs, Rochelle Steiner on Tuesday, December 29 at 5:00 p.m. for a virtual visit to Smith’s Palm Desert studio and a discussion of his artistic practice. Smith and Steiner will have a dialogue about his unique artistic output in this public program presented by the museum. More info

Virtual Events at The Center

Looking for connection in this time of self-isolation? The LGBT Center of the Desert continues to connect people, using the technology of group-meeting platform Zoom, which you can use on your computer, tablet, or smartphone. Here’s just a taste of the programs they are hosting:

Social Caring in the Face of Quarantine with Alexis Ortega – Mondays at 11:00 a.m.

Zumba for Beginners with Shaun Samaro – Mondays at 10:00 a.m.

Managing Emotions During a Pandemic with Jill Hingston, Ph.DTuesdays at 11:00 a.m.

Conversational Spanish with Guillermo Biro – Tuesdays at 2:00 p.m.

Prostate Cancer Support Group2nd and 4th Tuesdays at 4:00 p.m.

Trans Tuesdays with Jill Hingston, Ph.D – Tuesdays at 6:30 p.m.

LGBTQ+ Youth Virtual Hangout with Miguel NavarroWednesdays at 3:00 p.m.

Seated Wellness with Lynn Simonson – Thursdays at 10:00 a.m.

Women’s Chat with Kim Kieler – Thursdays at 10:30 a.m.

Men’s Chat with Stuart HugginsFridays at 10:30 a.m.

Who Cares: Caregiver Support Group with Perry WigginsFridays at 3:00 p.m.

Making Connections During COVID: Men’s Discussion Group with Arlen Keith Leight, LCSW, Ph.D
1st and 3rd Saturdays at 11:30 a.m.

Full list of The Center’s Zoom programs [here]

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